All it takes is one inspiration. Maybe you’re the one meant to make your cousin realize how much greater his or her life could be. Just a thought.
The whole reason my cousin came in to visit was because she “felt that I needed to see her.” She was right. God was telling her to come talk to me, and that’s what I needed.
I guess what I’m saying is that you can be the one to start the change. In the mean time, I’ll keep your cousin in my prayers :)